To sum it up: if I'm fucking somebody, I don't like it at all if they're unresponsive, even though that's their normal behaviour when they're getting fucked and they enjoy it. Instead, I like them to moan and groan, as if they were really suffering. It doesn't matter whether they're just pretending and putting up an act for me or if they do actually feel what they show. Otherwise, if they don't move, don't say anything, don't spurn me to shove my cock deeper into their arse, I have the feeling I'm screwing a wooden board and that doesn't turn me on at all. After a while it gets pretty mechanical and my mind is switched off so that I have to resort to external fantasies to conjure up the excitement needed. It's very subjective, of course, because some people do enjoy being fucked even if they don't scream and shout when they have a cock in their arse. But I'm superficial and I like the show: so please be kind and moan. On the other hand, when I am getting fucked I like those who fuck me to act in two ways. Either they behave in a dominant way, fucking me hard and commenting on what they're doing to me, or they fuck me in an indifferent way, as if they were just fucking machines. In this case it doesn't matter to me if they don't show any passion at all, because all the passion I need to see is witnessed by the hardness of their cock. I like them to be strict and screw me rhytmically and methodically. They should be impassive, as if I had nothing to do with their lust and as if I were an "object" to be sexually exploited. Any object would do, as it were. I'm well aware this is only a sophisticated form of submission, one which doesn't need the whole paraphernalia of submission tricks used during normal sado-masochistic sessions. I could sing to myself: "I'm in love, I'm in love with a strict machine".
(Italian text: here)
So what?
Posted by: Matthäi | 10/07/2006 at 00:09
"I'm in love... I'm in love...". Quella canzoncina è deliziosa ed anche il video è interessante, specie per com'è realizzato tecnicamente.
Per quanto riguarda il sesso: scopare qualcuno in maniera impassibile, ritmica e metodica - magari per un sacco di tempo - può risultare faticoso e necessita di molte energie.
Agendo invece in maniera cosiddetta "appassionata" e condendo il tutto con esclamazioni, grugniti e sospiri, cambi di posizione più o meno atletici, è più facile ritagliarsi il pretesto di un secondo di pausa dal ritmo continuato per "prender fiato", facendolo rientrare in un gesto di partecipazione eccitata.
In verità mi capita anche di esclamare banalmente (specie in questi giorni torridi) "apsss, che caldo... dammi un sec..." mi fermo un attimo, contemplo la situazione - magari sinceramente emozionato - mentre entra l'aria nei polmoni e poi ricomincio...
I can't fuck... I can't fuck... I can't fuck like a strict machine...
:-)
Posted by: Stupid-toy | 10/07/2006 at 13:20
"Meine Liebe ist ein Traktor und das ist auch ein Faktor". Finora non riuscivo a capire il senso di questa canzone, adesso dopo aver letto il tuo pezzo mi si sono schiarite le idee!
Posted by: avi | 10/07/2006 at 14:21
@ matthaei: why not?
@ stupidboy: immaginavo avrebbe colto la citazione. Wonderful electric?
@ avi: che canzone è? si cantava nelle Landesgenossenschaften della DDR o nei kibbutz israeliani? :)
Posted by: stefano | 10/07/2006 at 14:37
I'm dressed in white noise
You know just what I want
Posted by: stupidboy | 10/07/2006 at 23:56
"But I'm superficial and I like the show: so please be kind and moan..."
geniale e teatrale
q. girovago nelle categorie a caso
Posted by: q., | 21/12/2006 at 13:59